Empath, Emotional Intelligence and Leadership

Empathy

For leaders, having empathy is vital to managing a successful team or enterprise. Leaders with empathy have the capacity to put themselves in someone else's scenario. They help increase the human beings on their crew, task others who 'are appearing unfairly, supply positive feedback, and pay attention to folks that want it.

In case you need to earn the respect and loyalty of your group, then show them you care by way of being empathic.

How can you improve your empathy?

    Put yourself in someone else's function – it's smooth to guide your own point of view. After all, it is yours! However, take the time to look at conditions from other people's perspectives. For a beneficial approach for doing this.

Be aware of frame of language – possibly when you listen to someone, cross your arms, cross your feet backward and forward, or chew your lip. 

This frame of language tells others how you actually experience their specific situation, and the message you are giving isn't always positive! Getting to know to examine a frame of language may be a real asset in a leadership role, due to the fact you'll be higher capable to decide how a person really feels.

 This gives you the possibility to respond appropriately.

Respond to emotions – You inform your assistant that paintings are overdue – once more. And even though he or she has the same opinion, you may hear the disappointment in his or her voice. So, respond by means of addressing his or her emotions. Inform him or her you appreciate how willing he or she is willing to work longer and more hours, and that you're simply as frustrated operating late and feel the same. If viable, determine out a manner for destiny past due nights to be less of a difficulty and allow him or her to take Mondays off.

 

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The roles of Emotional Intelligence and Leadership

Human beings respond to accurate management! Inspiration! It's in all elements of our lives, no longer simply a business. A mother is a frontrunner in her domestic; a son can be chief of a group recreation or a daughter the leader of the controversy crew. A group is predicated at the man or woman in fee to certainly make them successful. A true chief is noticeably moral, honest and revered.

In our society, we have leaders and fans. Are we born to one or the opposite? No! Are you able to hone your leadership capabilities? Truly!

The leaders that I respect appear to have all of these in the region:

A) They assume big! They don’t position a ceiling in the vicinity. Alternatively, no restrict is set as to how large or how a great deal better something maybe.

B) The desires are firmly set in the region and the eye does not come off of it.

C) They make regarded to all involved the very last product that they may be all going for, instance if you promote widgets, it takes x wide variety of widgets to be prosperous, otherwise, you want to win that soccer sport and in the long run the name. Recognize what you’re going for.

D) they could get compliance with orders.

E) while goals are met they set new desires or boost the bar.

People will comply with your lead willingly if you are sincere, ethical if you are consistent and treat them with recognition. Worthwhile a person whilst a process is well accomplished is usually appreciated. A very good leader may also offload a person who continually hinders the institution who is just now not a crew player.

You can improve your very own self- appreciate and end up a concept to others. How awesome is that!

SPEAK UP!!

What happens when so called upper management rolls down a new policy regarding downsizing?

 Let me see now, distrust comes into my mind then it reduces cooperation from people and eventually there is no collaboration. This actually inhibits learning,communication and of course any type of upper mobility. 

These upper top so called leaders jump into action to build new focus groups because they have no idea how to fix it “Surprise there” The groups will begin to tell them what is wrong. 

Top management in turn will block any real learning and communication to stop any kind of real change because they do nothing to encourage individual accountability and tend to reinforce the mindset of that only top management can bring about real change which in turn is the biggest joke ever!! 

This brings about distrust and eventually people start to leave simply because of politics and people in positions that they never should have been given to them. 

People do not have to agree with me but if you do then speak up or continue to suffer. It is up to you to continue feeding into agendas that will never benefit you or your families. There is always a solution to benefit everyone involved. 


One just needs to find the right person to help and be realistic just ask me!!#management #mind 

Never join Hive minded people to promote!!!

Hello, my friends, it has been a little while. 

I was thinking today regarding the checks and balances for those people who think they are leaders because the position was given to them and currently hold. What happens to those below them when they are treated wrong by these guys? 

If they complain they get so much runaround that after a while you start to believe that you are the issue when in reality they have confused you by there training which is bullshit!! When I was told this information from a mentor of mine I was like what? 

But it was recognizing someone who holds you down, your expertise and education to a low regard  for no other reason than their preconceptions about who you are because you are not a yes man when a person is faced with such an issue this will force you to understand that so much popular information is shared only with those who are like-minded or part of what I like to call the hive mentality. 

Why continue to waste your time and energy that you need help with upper mobility when you already know it is not going to happen no matter what you do knowing the fact that there are no checks and balances for these upper so-called leaders and consider themselves untouchable or are they?

 

Leadership

Leadership So what happens when you know that your boss is not a boss at all but a bully. This person is noway a leader in their finest day but only someone who is so afraid to have relationships with their staff. what happens when you just want to ask you, so-called boss, the question; why are you so evil towards people. You see my friends the thing is that in most organizations they like to move people through fear because thy really believe this is the only way to get people to do what they want them to and mostly to fulfill their needs and not the needs of their staff. These so-called leaders believe that in order to get people to do things or tasks the must instill fear in them. They miss that most people today have very little fear if any of their bosses and yes this scares the hell out of them. These so-called leaders need their staff to be so dependent on them that they will only make a move after their boss approves it and yes, of course, this so-called boss loves it because they feel they are in power to bully people around.
You see true leaders are an endangered species and they know it, so when one comes along the freak the hell out. You will know if you are a leader because people will follow you. Dr. Luciano Santini

STUPIDITY

Hello it has been a little while my friends,

 

 I believe always in doing the right thing. What is leadership and what it stands for; 

 

1) Leadership is defined as “a process by which a person influences others to accomplish an objective and directs the organization in a way that makes it more coherent and cohesive.” A good leader is one who is always three steps ahead of the others. He looks out for the people before himself not the other way around which most do-go ahead and prove me wrong! 

 

 2) “A great leader posses a clear vision, is courageous, has integrity, honesty, humility and clear focus. ... Great leaders help people reach their goals, are not afraid to hire people that might be better than them. The ones who are afraid and keep the good ones down and away from becoming shinning stars!! Why!! 

 

3) My friend Faydeyi Femi says that; Humanity will remain endangered if it fails to understand the concept of leadership well which is akin to servant hood and servitude.A good leader must be a good servant in deed and in act.Any leader that fails in being a good servant has failed woefully and it can be concluded that such a leader has misconstrue the concept of leadership as a tool of oppression. hashtag#leadership hashtag#humility hashtag#rights

 

 

LIFE

In life, we deal with our own issues and we try so hard to hide away the pain we go through. 

You see my friends the truth is and yes we can pretend to ignore real issues and turn the other cheek and yes many do this very thing. The other day a really good guy was fired from his job because he was actually a threat to the new so-called supervisor.

 You see some organizations do not want real leaders instead they place people they know are cowards! hypocrites, liars and of course kiss a@#$%^. 

These are the people that are placed in positions of power. 

The so-called leaders will always judge and will never like you but apparently will always have the time to watch you or monitor what you do. 

They do this because they know you know they are cowards! hypocrites, liars and of course kiss a@#$%^ to keep their jobs HAHAHAHAHAH!!! If what I say is not true then write me some comments below please and or if you agree to write some comments below.

 You see fear has two meanings; 1) Forget everything and run like a coward. 2) Face the cowards! hypocrites, liars, and rise!!! which are you!!!