Empath, Emotional Intelligence and Leadership

Empathy

For leaders, having empathy is vital to managing a successful team or enterprise. Leaders with empathy have the capacity to put themselves in someone else's scenario. They help increase the human beings on their crew, task others who 'are appearing unfairly, supply positive feedback, and pay attention to folks that want it.

In case you need to earn the respect and loyalty of your group, then show them you care by way of being empathic.

How can you improve your empathy?

    Put yourself in someone else's function – it's smooth to guide your own point of view. After all, it is yours! However, take the time to look at conditions from other people's perspectives. For a beneficial approach for doing this.

Be aware of frame of language – possibly when you listen to someone, cross your arms, cross your feet backward and forward, or chew your lip. 

This frame of language tells others how you actually experience their specific situation, and the message you are giving isn't always positive! Getting to know to examine a frame of language may be a real asset in a leadership role, due to the fact you'll be higher capable to decide how a person really feels.

 This gives you the possibility to respond appropriately.

Respond to emotions – You inform your assistant that paintings are overdue – once more. And even though he or she has the same opinion, you may hear the disappointment in his or her voice. So, respond by means of addressing his or her emotions. Inform him or her you appreciate how willing he or she is willing to work longer and more hours, and that you're simply as frustrated operating late and feel the same. If viable, determine out a manner for destiny past due nights to be less of a difficulty and allow him or her to take Mondays off.

 

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LUCIANO SANTINI'S OUTLOOK ON "LIFE"

Well here we are again on A Saturday and what a day it has been so far let us see. One of our car's engine blew up so yes we need to either put in a new engine or buy a new one MMM. My other car starting leaking oil like crazy so we need to repair that once we figure out where the leak is from or buy a new one. That has been my morning . 

You see I am just like everyone out there when it rains it pours. What I have done so far. I woke up looked outside and walked  around and took a big breath of the fresh and cool air and filled my lungs and said thank you for another beautiful day of life. You see life is what you make of it and how you look at each situation.

I have no idea who wrote this but they have my credit. I say this because at one time I used something that someone sent me and they tried to get me to pay them like a hundred dollars and I said really so I removed it and well I have never seen that anywhere else again. 

People are greedy by nature I suppose but I ask the question WHY?? For those that feel philisophical please find me on facebook and leave me your comments.

Life is life and will always continue to move forward with the exception when it stops and when id does people say there is still somewhere to go and that may be the case however I have never experienced that but I have heard so I will leave it at that simply because I believe there might be something to that huh.

When I do a seminar on life I get asked so many questions and sometimes I do not have the answers and as silly as they might sound neither does anyone else, but being human beings we hope that there is always an answer and I am positive that there is however sometimes we have keep on searching for it. If life was that simple and when we want an answer it would just pop up well life would be boring!! That is my opinion of course.

When I do a seminar in business again I get asked so many questions as if to say well you have the silver bullet for my unfortunate demise of my business or you have the naswer to the why I have been looking for!!. 

I smile and I say to them well no! I do not have the silver bulet nor do I have any miracles for you but what I do have is some sound advice on perhaps could turn your business around depending where you are now and how you put it into use.

Clients are strange specially if they are looking for the answer to their needs and that is why it is so important to do your diligent research in your market or services.

 If you have a service and you believe you have the best service and yet you have three others like you in the neighborhood that believe the same thing then what do you do?

I do not about you but I would for sure go visit them and see what they offer that makes their customers leep coming back MMMM you see we all have something special to offer the world the trick is how well do we offer it that is it.