What your Friends are too afraid to tell you

Good morning everyone and today well it is what!!!!! That is right it is Superbowl Day Woohoo.

 

Millions of people will sit in front of their Television Set and watch for the entire time of the duration of the game.

I have nothing against watching a good movie or a good game once in a while but I know people that watch game after game every Sunday and every day that there is a game on TV. To me well it is only entertainment and a waste of time. I know I am probably going to catch some slack from many people who live for football.

I am one of those people I actually play semi-pro football what!! you want prooof common really you are not going to take my word. I have a tough crowed. OK Ok here it is ;

You see the guy with the dark glasses that is me. here I am with my team at practice. More photos to come in uniform later on in the year. You see I love the game and when I play I give everything I have.When I do not play I give everything that I have to my business and family not television or games.

I once advised that unless I was getting paid and making money from watching then I would be wasting my time.Remember I love the game and when I play it is not for money but for the love of my teammates and the game.

Please do not misconstrue what I am saying. I love football and I love to watch an important game like today!! I will watch for a bit then go and play or sit and write more on my book who knows but I will not sit there and watch the entire game.

The point that I am trying to get to is this: In life I believe people waste so much time on things that really do not matter to them personally and then they sit there and wonder where the day went MMMMMM

In life you must understand that you will only live once and this once is your opportunity to do something great for yourself or someone. I try to do something each and everyday that will benefit someone whether it is simply listening just listening. There is no cost for that but there is such a benefit for that someone.

It could be a child that is crying or your significant other who wants to just sit there with you and talk. You see such simple things about life that we take for granted.

"Motivation Is Nothing More Then Believing That You Can Reach Your Full Potential"--Luciano Santini

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There are many benefits to being a professional speaker and business coach and life coach. Personally I have been able to learn from so many people. Personally it has been a long journey that has no end as of yet and I say that because there will be so many people yet to talk to  and each one of them will teach me something new.

Benefits of having a life coach;

Building self-confidence and self-esteem
Goal setting
Reducing your stress level
Learning relaxation techniques
 Advancement in your career
  Finding balance between work and home life

"The Mind Never Knows What direction To Go Until You Start The Motion"--Luciano Santini

Good morning everyone how are we doing today? Today is one of those days when the clouds are out covering the sky and it seems like a dreary day but if you look through the clouds you will find that the sky is still there blue as always. 

People see this and they feel like the day will be ruined for them why is that?

This questions as simple as it sounds which is really.

You see what I'm trying to make a point of here is the following: Life in general is the same and most people live a life that depends on their surroundings and if you are one of these people then you need to immediately start looking at life from a different perspective.

When the clouds fill the sky with clouds people think oh it will be a crappy day today just take a look at the sky and those dark clouds. Is it not funny and would you not agree that when you wake up and you stub a toe or drop some coffee on the way to work  you look at it and say oh no!! this is a sign of what my day is going to be. 

I have heard this so many times that I tend to laugh because that is not how you start your day ever and if you do then I bet you have had many crappy days.

The mind does not know whether it is a bad day or a good day nor will it tell you any different. You see what you feed your mind the mind will react accordingly MMMMMMMM does it make sense? Of course it does!!

As a Life Coach what I do is to make sure that those clouds are removed from your life, It is not easy and for some nearly impossible believe me I know I was one of those people for a very long time. I used to think the world was always against me, I believed that when anything did not go my way it was someone else doing it to me.

One day I realized that it was all me and that no one had anything to do with my issues and situations.

"The Mind Never Knows What direction To Go Until You Start The Motion"--Luciano Santini

I love this quote because it really does put life in a perspective that anyone can understand, try it think about the quote above.

"The World Will Give You everything You Ask For But First You Must Realize It Your Mind The You Have Every Right To It" --Luciano Santini

As a Business Coach, I focus on the mindsets of the owners first and then move on to the issues within the company why? Simple really because if the owner does not have a mindset that will move his company forward and willing to listen and make some changes then why take  the time and money it will be for nothing.

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Here we are on a beautiful Saturday morning and getting ready to see the sunrise one more day. I say one more day because one more day is to be thankful to be alive and be able to see and feel the sun rise. I never get tired of seeing this because it just is such a majestic sight. 

My friends the time will come and you will wish to have taken the time to have seen the sunrise if you have done so take the time to do so.

I was coaching one person one on one Friday night and I really find it amazing of how most people truly believe they have all the keys to life and their situation. I ask certain questions or I will ask why is it then that you are not happy or why is it that you are constantly lying to yourself? 

Of course the answers that follow are well strange because in all reality they have no idea what they are saying to me much less to themselves.

I also find it amazing that people lie to themselves all the time. I was once the same way until I discovered a way to stop and to put my life and situations whatever they might have been in perspective and realized that I needed some help. 

Why, then is it that people do not ask for help why is that when I ask certain questions they freeze or have to think about their own answers. 

I believe it is because they are amazed at their own lies that after a while they begin to believe to be a reality is nothing more then a fantasy and that is what will keep them in the dark or walk around blind if you will metaphorically speaking of course. 

The best way to start getting out of the fantasy world is to slowly start reading and understanding how the mind works and how sometimes your mind will manipulate your thoughts if you are not careful. Your thoughts can be very powerful and very confusing at the same time. 

Your mind has no concept of reality. The reality is what you create either in your mind or outside of your mind. You see once your mind believes the lies you input then it will turn that and manifest it into your reality and this where you start to live or believe what you are thinking because you have created it.

As a life coach I try to teach the understanding of the mind and how you need to take control of your thoughts. Some benefits of learning from a Life Coach are:

Better focus on life

Better understanding of your thoughts

How to take control of your mind

How to better understand people

How to understand your significant other

So much more............

As a Business Coach there are also many benefits such as:

Focusing on what is priority

Focusing on staff

Making the changes that need to be made from a business point of view

Seeing what reality means and separate fantasy thinking

Making a profit

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"Once I Find Your Mechanisms Then We Have Found The Key To Your Personal Success In Life Or Business"--Luciano Santini

Hello my friends: DO you know that to  motivate yourself is the hardest thing to accomplish as an individual. Do you realize that though we live in the most affluent society in the world we are still learning that in life we stay behind because we do not know how to motivate yourself. I wonder sometimes what would happen if we actually learned something new to change our lives.

You see in life we can either propel ourselves or hinder ourselves depending on how we look at our situation whatever that might be. Do you know that 80% of new businesses fail why is that: Simple really because sometime business owners feel they always know everything about their business and the truth is they do not.

Do not get me wrong there many owners who do know their business well, however there is always something new to learn because technology is moving at a rapid speed and leaving many behind.

You see in business there is only a one time to impress your clients and customers yes only one time and that is all it will take whether you will make it or not due to the clients talking to other people. Will they talk respectfully of you or not.

I  find it amazing how when I speak to owners and ask them if they ever bring in a motivational speaker to motivate their staff to a business coach to help coach their business in regards to customer service or management skills as well as conflict resolution. Their answers have been such as Oh! no we do this in house.

I look around and see no customers and think to myself aha OK.

The second thing I notice is that the owners are working from opening to closing and once again AHA!!! OK!!

As a business coach here are some of the benefits:

Some of the most important topics in business: 

Remember if you hang out with losers then you will become a looser but if you surround yourself with positive people the you will begin to thing success.

1. How Productive and effective is your staff with your business?
2. How well do your leaders plan each day?
3. How well does your sales and marketing team sell your vision?
4. How well does your leadership team work together?

Life Is A Circle From Birth to Death And Then

Good morning my friends and here we are on a Friday. The week is done and the fun begins alright!! You see this is how most people think. people in general believe that they work all week and then look forward to Friday so they can have fun. 

What is that all about? People can have fun all the time is you choose to do so. Yes you read it correctly anytime if you choose to do so. Life is just to short to not have fun on a daily basis. I know you might be thinking really Luciano really! 

Ok Ok!! I will be honest yes you can have fun all the time if you choose to do so. The question become is it easy and is it true. Yes it is true because you as the individual can make the choice to be happy or unhappy only you can make that choice not the next door neighbor or family member only you can do that for yourself!!

You see we make choices every day sometime they are great choices and sometimes they are horrible choices and with every choice we make there are consequences that sometimes we must deal or answer to. The consequences can be either good or bad it all depends on whether you thought before you acted.

"Unlocking The Truth Can Sometimes Be Very Revealing To The Mind And Painful At The Same Time But Sometimes Pain Is Needed To See The World For What It Is"--Luciano Santini

I can tell you that as a Life Coach sometimes it is not easy telling someone the truth but the truth must be discovered on your own or with the help of someone else. my job is to show you the way to correct your thinking and to see reality for what it is because we mostly live in a fantasy world or a comfort zone if you will.

Sometimes I find myself telling someone to really think about life and their success and how are they going to learn from it all. 

Mistakes are made every day in our daily lives and sometimes we just ignore the outcome in the hopes that it either goes away but the reality is that though we ignore the truth it will come up and you have to see it for what it really is.

"Life Is A Circle From Birth to Death And Then It Starts All Over Again What Have You Done In Between"--Luciano Santini

If you are feeling down sometimes you may need to call someone who is not bias towards you because if you do then you will never know the truth because friends will try to make you feel better with cushion behind the words. 

A coach cares about you as an individual and a person not as a friends why because he or she is getting paid to get the job done which ids to show you techniques to see the world through a lens that will show you reality.

As a business coach the same rules follow life the only difference is that now it encompasses more people and one needs to be a bit more focused on business and not so much personal life right!! wrong because if you do not focus on your personal life then your business life will not be very healthy.

More on business on my next posting. but remember the following:

As the world of business changes everyday and becomes more competitive and difficult to understand all the new technology  in sales, marketing and management strategies. Having a Business Coach isn’t just something to think about, it is a  necessity your business must have.

"Nothing Ever Happens Until you Take That First Step"--Luciano Santini

Hello everyone and I just literally walked back into my house from watching and inviting the new year and prosperity into my life. WELCOME 2012

A new year special go to EBAY and get my DVD for not $39.95 but $15.95 and start the year with a new outlook on life.
A few are left take advantage now.

I look forward to seeing old friends and making and working with both new and old friends. Thank you for last year and making life easy and successful. As always I take criticism and learn from it and make my teaching techniques and programs better for the people that I serve.

I HAVE NOT BLOGGED FOR A FEW DAYS DUE TO THE HOLIDAYS BUT THE NEW YEAR IS UPON US NOW AND THIS YEAR WILL BE A GREAT ONE FOR ALL OF US IF WE BUT REALLY FOCUS AND AND DO WHAT WE ARE MEANT TO DO IN OUR LIVES.

This year will be one of those years where once believed to have been the end of humanity and well that has been debunked as of last night. I saw the ball fall in NY city Time Square what a beautiful sight. My friends this year will be a good one for you, Just follow your dreams and never ever give up. 

There will be pitfalls like always but we learn and move forward each and everyday towards our goals until we reach them.

I will be starting an internet live show in February and through out the year every Saturday at 10am till 11am only a half an hour and you will be bale to call in and well I look forward to touching lives around the world.

Remember:

"Nothing Ever Happens Until you Take That First Step"--Luciano Santini