What is the best way to lead and how to do it?

 

What is the best way to lead and how to do it?

I believe that the best way to lead is through understanding unique personalities and respecting the fact that every person is different. As a leader, it is important to recognize that everyone has their own unique set of strengths and weaknesses, and that it is up to the individual to make the necessary changes to become a better person.

Leadership is not about forcing people to do something they don't want to do. It is about providing guidance and support to help people reach their goals. Leaders must be patient and understanding and be willing to listen to different perspectives. This will help create an environment of trust and respect, which is essential for any successful team.

Leaders must also be willing to take risks and be open to trying new things. This will help foster creativity and innovation, which can lead to better solutions and improved results. Ultimately, the best way to lead is to be open-minded and understanding of distinct personalities, and to recognize that each person has the potential to make a positive impact on the world. By doing this, leaders can create an environment of growth and success.

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"Music And People Is What Makes The World A Great Place To Live"--Luciano Santini

Good morning my friend and here we are again on another beautiful Tuesday morning. I am listening to The prayer with Celine Dion & Andrea Boccelli and wow what a beautiful combination of both music and voices I love this classical type music.

You know when I give a speech That is just how I feel music to sooth the audience and capture their imagination.

"Music And People Is What Makes The World A Great Place To Live"--Luciano Santini

You there are times when I wish life was just that easy as a combination of voices would that not be a great and beautiful thing. 

That would be a great and beautiful thing and it can be because with the right combination of coaching whether life coaching or business coaching I can get you to see the right combinations to get your life or business in the right track.

You see sometime we think that we know all there is about life and or our business and the truth is that we do not. I always get a kick when someone tells me that I need improvement. Guess what when they tell me such a thing I start to laugh because my question to them is the following: 

Why is that you know that I need self improvement and I do not, I ask because when someone says to you that you need improvement they are telling you that there is something wrong with you. Weird huh!!! yea I thought that, You see if we believe what others tell us about ourselves then why are we living. 

Please do not misunderstand me I believe that we make some crappy choices in our lives and then we deal with the co sequences and sometimes they suck simply because we did not take the time to think the choices over. 

Well in life that is what people do make mistakes all the time does not mean that there is something wrong with you simply you made a bad choice now what!!! Well NOW you hopefully learn and never make that choice again and if you do you prepare for a better outcome yes that simple.

Resumes oh man Resumes!!! people all say they mean nothing but a piece of paper well I guess neither does a high school diploma huh because it is just a piece of paper HELLO!! people wake up the economy sucks and you need a great resume to get you what the job NO!!! NOOOO!!!! only the interview yes my friends people all focus on the job on the job when in all reality they should be focusing on the interview and how they are going to get one in the first place. 

A resume is what represents you when are not there so make sure that it represents you because if you do not think it does guess what!! it is time to have one made by a specialist and certified resume writer. I will also assist you on the interview by asking you the right questions and give you the insight you need to answer them correctly.

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"If We Fall Into Our Past We Will Never Progress We Will Instead Regress"--Luciano Santini

Good morning my friends and here we are on a beautiful but cold Saturday. I love the cold weather. I think it is because it brings back memories of when I was a kid and played outside in the snow with my brothers and I also realize that those memories are well long gone and will I ever have them again meaning will I ever get to do it again perhaps yes and perhaps no.

I want you to think about this because we carry memories with us forever and sometimes the memories we carry can hurt us without realizing it. You see sometimes I can be in a great mood and suddenly I remember a great thought from the past and it brings a smile to my face and I can feel it from ear to ear.

Then there are those memories that we never forget but simply learn to live either with the disappointments or just a bad memory and when it enters the mind I get frustrated or angry not at anyone in particular but at myself for letting that thought take control of my mind.

Please do not misunderstand me though I am a very positive person I share this with you because I am also human and I am just like you. People are always asking me how is it that I am always so positive and what I say is this; It is not that I am always positive it is that I always look for the positive in everything that I do.

I believe that is where people fail in their thinking. We carry bad memories or failures in your minds and when they enter our minds and believe me these thoughts can enter at the most inopportune times.Again I am just like you no better.

My friends the best thing to do is this when that thought comes to mind replace it immediately with a positive thought or simply change the thought into whatever comes to mind at the same time but do not let take over your mind. I find that when you do that technique it works and your day will be much better.

"The World Holds Our Deepest Memories In A Folder Called Life They May Not Start  Great But You Can Start Creating The Greatest Ending"--Luciano Santini

Remember my friends that when we fall back into the past we will regress and never progress. I really want you to think about that when we fall into the past we will never progress but regress into what we once were or worst yet let the past take over our present.

"If We Fall Into Our Past We Will Never Progress We Will Instead Regress"--Luciano Santini

As a certified life coach I try to inform people and clients as much as possible regarding the issues in life that can almost guarantee failure. You see though it can only make you fail if you let take over your mind. 

I always ask questions like; What is it in your life that you would change? Or If you could go back in time what would you do different? You see these are simple questions but extremely damaging when you think about them .

You might ask yourself how are they damaging? Because you start to think about the frustrations from the past the failures from the past and what happens; well simply it brings you down. The worst part of it is that it was in the past and you are reliving it there is where the damage lies. 

It is time to let it go and start living in the present because there is nothing you can do about yesterday but you can do something today from this point on.

As a Business coach well life is different because now it is no longer just your life involved it includes everyone around you whether they are employees or loved ones and life becomes more complicated.

We will elaborate more on that issue on the next blog.

Check this video on human potential.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvovEIdnqgA

It Is Our Friends That Will Carry Us When

TODAY WE HONOR ALL THOSE THAT SERVED 

Honoring All Who Served

Veterans Day

By Rod Powers, About.com Guide

To commemorate the ending of the "Great War" (World War I), an "unknown soldier" was buried in highest place of honor in both England and France ( (in England, Westminster Abbey; in France, the Arc de Triomphe). These ceremonies took place on November 11th, celebrating the ending of World War I hostilities at 11 a.m., November 11, 1918 (the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month). This day became known internationally as "Armistice Day". 

In 1921, the United States of America followed France and England by laying to rest the remains of a World War I American soldier -- his name "known but to God" -- on a Virginia hillside overlooking the city of Washington DC and the Potomac River. This site became known as the "Tomb of the Unknown Soldier," and today is called the "Tomb of the Unknowns." Located in Arlington National Cemetery, the tomb symbolizes dignity and reverence for the American veteran. 

In America, November 11th officially became known as Armistice Day through an act of Congress in 1926. It wasn't until 12 years later, through a similar act that Armistice Day became a national holiday.

"It Is Our Friends That Will Carry Us When We Are Down -Who Are They Becomes The Real Question"-Luciano Santini

If you are unemployed you do not need to be ashamed my friends It is part of life and also a true reality that so many people are facing today. I always tell people that when I speak to one person or one thousand people I speak the truth and never ever fluff it up to make you feel better. I will always tell you the truth in business and in real life. I will always show the difference between your dreams and and your realities that you may have to go through to find your strengths to pull you up and face the music.

Check this video out!!

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I was told by an old friend once that real success does not come overnight and when someone says that they have made it overnight it is a lie. The truth of the matter is that it has taken many struggles and many years to Make it. Here you see receiving an award from the State of California for creating a workshop for learning on higher education. Did I do it alone absolutely not it takes people to bring new ideas together and it takes dedication on all that are involved.

We all have dreams and thoughts that run every second of our lives in our minds and yet never take them to fruition; I ask why is that? My guess we never take action and never make them a reality for whatever the reason may be I really do not know but what I do know is that FEAR plays a big part in hindering us to move forward. We cannot let fear stop us from reaching our dreams and goals no matter how small or how big they are!! they can be attained.

I can tell you that when the obstacles cloud my mind and the world seems like it is against me I go to a nice quiet place and meditate on whatever the problem may be.

 I always find a solution and it will not be easy I can tell you that it takes practice lots of practice but once you learn it is like riding a bicycle you never forget you just simply get better and better. Read some of my all time quotes and think about them and then see what they mean to you

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.”
― Dr. Seuss

“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe

“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.”
― William W. Purkey

“Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results.”
― Albert Einstein

 

In Business I am pretty much the same guy who would tell you the truth about where you are in business and what you need to do make it better. I find that most of the time business owners find themselves stuck in a dream of which has been nothing but a fantasy In a dream where things are great but then fall so hard that they have the hardest time dealing with reality.

I am here to serve you in both personal life and in  business life.